Strap on dildos guide, part 1

A strap-on dildo (also strap-on didos, dildo harness) is a dildo that has been designed to be worn usually in a harness by one partner and used to penetrate another partner anally, vigianaly or orally, used by both homosexual or hetrosexual couples.

For a woman, a strap-on dildo can be used to anally penetrate a man, or used vaginally or anally for lesbian intercourse.

For a male, a strap on dildo can be worn for penetrative sex, and may be used in cases of erectile dysfunctions, for double penetration, or to penetrate multiple partners if hes lucky. A wide variety of harnesses and dildos are available, with different ways of fitting the wearer, attaching the dildos, stimulating the wearer or the receiver, and all with different features, advantages, and drawbacks for both users.

The first part of a strap on setup is the harness, which connects the dildo to the wearer's body, usually in a position similar to that of a male's genitals. A good harness should be sturdy yet comfortable, and is often designed to provide stimulation for the wearer. Many different kinds of harnesses are available, with all kinds of different features and drawbacks, and which harness is best is often a matter of taste, as there is no one with the "right" answer. Some dildos do not need any harness or are built onto one; for these, please see our section on dildo sex toys types and dildo attachment methods.

A 2-strap harness for a dildos, in its most basic form, is similar to a g-string. One strap goes around the wearer's waist, like a belt, while the other goes between his/her legs and connects to the other strap in the middle at the lower back. A didlo can then be fitted though a whole in the centre of the leather. While these are simple, many people find them uncomfortable because to the strap rubs against the anus and other areas, and they sometimes do not hold the dildo very firmly, causing it to sag, flop, or twist.

A 3-strap harness with dildo; the outer strap goes around the waist, while each strap goes around the thigh and rejoins the waist strap forward of the hip

3-strap harnesses also have one strap around the wearer waist, but instead of one strap between the legs, have two straps, one around each thigh, rejoining the first strap near the front. This design leaves the genitals and anus uncovered, and attaches the dildo much more firmly, giving the wearer more control. However, not all people find this comfortable, and sometimes they are hard to make fit properly or tend to slip.

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