What are Dildos?

April 23rd, 2010

Dildos are the oldest and yet most popular sex toys of all times. Resembling a male genital or penis in terms of shape, size, thickness and overall appearance, dildos
can be used for both vaginal and anal penetration. Whether you’re alone or in the company of others, you can witness an enhanced sexual pleasure with these sex tools. Dildos are the first adult toys to be used by our ancestors and non-vibrating in nature.

Why do I need dildos after all?

The need for dildos comes to the fore with the increasing complaints among women regarding the sexual performance of their men. In their opinion, men don’t last long enough to give them a perfect orgasm. The reasons can be many like premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction etc. By using dildos during initial stages of the intercourse, women can put themselves into an excellent mood and right frame of mind to start their sexual journey on a perfect note. Dildos can spare men of the initial tasks so that they can save their energies for subsequent actions. In this way, both the partners can achieve orgasm and great satisfaction.

Single women too can embark on the journey on their own with the help of dildos. They can derive the same degree of satisfaction what they might have otherwise derived from a real male sex organ. There are plenty of cases of single contemporary women using dildos to fulfill their sex needs. So, dildos are great for solo-play too.

What are the types of dildos that I can consider for me?

To your surprise, there are many different types and styles of dildos to consider. While some are used for vaginal insertion, some others are inserted into the anus. You can categorize them on the basis of shapes, sizes, colors and materials. Traditional dildos are built like a penis and also known as realistic dildos. They boast exactly the same size and color of a real penis. Some of them are actually made from a mold of a real penis.

Those who enjoy anal sex can try anal dildos which are specifically designed for anal penetration. These dildos have flared base or cord in order to prevent them from slipping all the way into anus.

There is also another variety called double-ended dildos that have either both ends molded or two traditional dildos joined at the base. There dildos are preferred by those people who want to apply a dildo on themselves and their partner simultaneously.

Strap-on dildos are the contemporary ones and can be used by both men and women. These dildos are attached to a harness which is then tied around the waist of the user. The user can insert the erected dildo to the vagina or anus of the partner like a penis. Two women can experience great sexual pleasure with strap-on dildos as one can penetrate the other by tying the dildo around her waist.

Which dildo material is suitable for me?

It is a matter personal preference. To your delight, there are good number material options. While some materials are rock solid and inflexible, some others are soft, flexible and just about human skin-like to the touch. During ancient ages, wood, tar, stone and rubber were used as dildo material. Now, you have the choice of plastic, silicone, jelly, latex, glass, cyberskin, acrylic and metal. While cyberskin, jelly and silicone are lifelike materials with softest of touch, materials like plastic, glass and metal are quite sturdy, but safer to use. Latex dildos are a low-cost alternative to silicone and jelly. Try each one of them to find out the best for your bodily requirements. It is always advisable to start with the softest dildos.

Are glass dildos safe for my body?

The use of glass for manufacturing dildos may give you strange feelings. It may be quite dangerous to insert them into your body. However, dispelling all apprehensions, a glass dildo is getting popular among masses. It is both beautiful and safe as it is made of Pyrex glass which is quite strong, chip and scratch-proof. There are no reported cases of injury till now. So enjoy your time with glass dildos.

How can I clean dildos so that they last long?

If you’re thinking of cleaning your dildos after every use, you’re most welcome. Like any other sex toys, dildos must be cleaned and maintained properly. You must be sure about the cleaning guidelines of dildos before purchasing them from an online sex shop or nearby store. Unlike vibrators, dildos are quite easy to clean. However, the cleaning requirements vary slightly from material to material. The common requirements may be soap and water, boiling water or a good adult sex toy cleaner which is available everywhere. You may require cyberskin cleaning solution for cyberskin dildos and rubbing alcohol for plastic dildos.

Do I need lubrication while using dildos?

When you indulge yourself in solo-play or sex with your partner, you may feel the necessity of lubrication for smooth insertion of dildos, particularly during anal play. Before using any lubrication, you must make sure that it is compatible with your dildo material as some lubricating items can damage certain dildos.

There are water-based, silicone-based, oil-based and petroleum-based lubrication to serve your purpose. While water-based lubrication is the most recommended one, you must avoid silicone lubricants when using dildos made of silicone. Similarly, petroleum lubricants using mineral oils or petroleum jelly are quite effective too, but they can stain your clothing and sheets. Petroleum will also dissolve latex. So, do not use it with latex dildos.

Am I exposed to the risks of carrying STDs while using dildos?

This is a good question in this world of life-threatening diseases. There is possibility of carrying Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs) while using dildos. A dildo when used in a group sex can transmit disease between users through liquid discharges from genitals. So you must keep your dildo within yourself and clean it with boiling water and soap after every use. It’s that simple. So, have a great time with dildos.

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