Bekinky Sex toys Shop - Bondage
The term ‘bondage’ generally implies the involvement of people who are tied up with several accessories for forceful achievement of actions desired by others. But the role of
bondage in enhancing sex life has nothing to do with serious, oppressive things. It is all done in a friendly ambiance among couples with mutual trust and care for each other. Various bondage gear, equipments and restraints create that erotic ambiance for lovemaking which is highly essential for ultimate sexual satisfaction.
What can be the possible reasons for me to use various bondage gears?
The reasons for using bondage gear for lovemaking sessions can be aplenty. Some people try them out of sheer curiosity. More than 50% of couples find the concept of bondage quite erotic. Some others want to relinquish the control of the situation for a brief period of time and merely follow what is being done on them and enjoy. The feeling of helplessness in lovemaking is quite enjoyable and erotic for some persons. Pleasure from pain is the ultimate reason.
What are various bondage gears and techniques to consider in my sex life?
Bondage gear can take several forms. You will have things such as faux-fur lined hand and wrist cuffs, glossy blindfolds, lightweight whips, feather ticklers and nipple clamps. Some of the bondage techniques include tape-gagging and handcuffing to iron bars, restricting the normal body movement through handcuffs, ropes or pony harness and tying the body down to another objects like chairs or stocks. Bondage is turning out to be the latest buzzword in the bedroom of many.
How can we start our bondage journey for the first time?
People purchasing bondage gear for the first time must try a pair of soft blindfolds, subtle suede leather, a feather tickler and a collection of soft bed restraints. Give yourself sufficient time to get acquainted with all these stuffs. Do not go overboard straightway. Once both of you are adequately experienced, think about bringing some more ‘pain’ into the relationship using advanced bondage gear and toys. Ball gags, hoods and rubber or latex body wear are some of the bondage options to consider. Bondage restraints like ankle spreaders and wrist spreader bars are quite popular too among adventurous men and women. There are also wrist to thigh and neck to wrist back bondage restraints.
How can I convince myself about the use of bondage?
Before incorporating bondage into your relationship, you must think over it seriously. You can throw a vital question at you: Do you really need it? Unless you’re not convinced about the use of bondage, you can’t explain it to your partner. If your ambiguity about bondage continues, you can resort to an erotic book or video that contains various forms of bondage act. If you find them arousing while reading or watching, you may prepare yourself to try them in actual life.
How can I discuss about bondage with my partner?
It’ll be a risky affair if you go ahead with your bondage spree without even discussing with your partner. You may give your partner a shocking surprise for which he/she is not mentally prepared. It may also strain your relationship. You must talk with your mate in detail such as what bondage demands, its particulars, the fantasy involved, the role of each partner and in the end, the sexual satisfaction both of you will derive. If your partner is still not convinced, you must talk more about bondage techniques and accessories. By letting your lover to see an erotic book or video, you can persuade him/her in a better manner. Ultimately, the main objective is that both of you are equally curious to try bondage in your relationship.
What can be the limits of our bondage acts?
Before embarking on your journey with bondage gear, you must discuss various points together. Set the limits of your fantasy. Be sure about what both of you can do and what you can’t. If you want to incorporate a new thing during your play, make a mental note of it for next time. Never hurry up things without discussing with your partner. If a particular bondage technique is painful and not pleasurable for your lover, never a waste a single moment to discard it. After all, your ultimate motto must be to gain pleasure and not pain.
What is a “Safe” word in bondage acts?
Both of you must mutually agree upon a “safe” word that when uttered by any of the partner, straight away stop that bondage act. You must choose a word which is less likely to be said during your play. You must make use of this word only when a specific boundary or limit is crosses or violated or when one of you quickly makes up your mind regarding the course of the play.
What can we do once the bondage act gets over?
When both of you are done with your bondage act for the night, it is always a good idea to discuss what you and your lover just experienced, what worked well as per the expectations and what didn’t, what you adored and what you hated to forget instantly. This type of pillow talk is a good way to know about each other’s likes and dislikes and the improvements you can bring in the next time.
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